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Susan Vickery-Mercer's avatar

Love the beautiful watercolor by CSC! I felt energized looking at it.

Both a fresh and renewed insight I had today was that I have been enabling a friend whom I was trying to help. He has been resistant to making any significant changes to the things he is complaining about. I have done the legwork to research possibilities, which he always seems to have an immediate response of how that option won't work without even exploring it. I've been afraid that he would not make it through his tough situation, and I got a clear insight today that I am a loving friend and perhaps the best way I can love him now is to step back and let him do the legwork and initiative to "save" himself. I will continue to be his friend in a supportive way, but I'm now releasing feeling responsible for helping him make good decisions for himself. I think that is perhaps the most loving way I can be in the friendship now.

Thanks you, Dalene, for always encouraging us to be our best and most healthy selves. Happy New Year to all you co-readers! :)

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Elaine and Marshall Marchbanks's avatar

I've been struggling for most of my life about setting boundaries. Feeling it's my responsibility to say yes all the time to requests being made even when totally hard on me physically or emotionally. But am learning that if iI set appropriate boundaries that my loved ones, family or friends, may be surprised it disappointed but they still love me and actually seem respectful of my boundary setting. It has occurred to me that even Jesus set boundaries as he went off to rest when he needed to. He walked away from situations that he knew would be harmful. He said no when he felt he should. So I'm trying to be discerning as Jesus was in my daily routines to look to Him for help being discerning well. Thank you Dalene for this devotional as a great way to start the week. Bless you!!!

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